Question of the Day: Day 89
Do you have any unresolved conflict from long ago that still makes you feel bad?
How do you handle it?
How do you handle it?
posted by Michelle at 9:04 AM
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posted by Michelle at 9:04 AM
9 Comments:
I am lucky to have got that settled. I was bullied; this could have been tided over, but I am happy and at peace now.
my unsolved conflict is that, i think my old boyfriend likes my friend. I really don't do any thing because i don't want to hurt my friends feelings.But i did talk to my x- boyfriend about it and he got upset. The only reason it's still unsolved because i still love him.
Not so much conflict as just a lot of thoughts about what might have been and or how I screwed things up. The inensity of this comes and goes.
I don't handle it well, for the most part.
Absolutely, and more baggage just keeps coming. I think about it in a quiet place, make my peace with it if possible and release it. I release it by either of two ways: If it's something small, I just let it go emotionally and don't think on it again. But if it's a big thing, something I really have to get over, I write a letter to the object of its nature or to the emotion itself. I literally write to it on paper as if it were going to read it. Then I either light the paper on fire with a lighter or throw it into a lit fireplace... or I tear it into little peices and scatter them in a small hole I dug. Doing this is like releasing it to the "universe" and letting it go.
yes i got in a fight i beat up my best friend now we are not friends
I have a conflect with my dad because he would not let me go to my moms more when I was younger.I wanted to go to my moms because it got pretty boring at my house in the country.
No.
Carrying baggage around from the past is way too exhausting so I simply choose to take care of whatever I can and let go of the rest. This works pretty well for me.
I do have some unsovled conflicts one is that some of my family can not see that I have changed. And that Iwas not able to tell my ex- girlfriend that I was sorry for what I made her think and fell and that she is the one person in my life that I did care alot about.
Ruben,
yeh i hav a long ago problm dat stil boters me 2 dis day no lie. i try to do da best i can with da lil wisdom i no.
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